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		<title>By: Petra</title>
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		<dc:creator>Petra</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 15:01:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In my own simplistic way (and I certainly don&#039;t profess to be a great political or intellectual mind)it seems that it is always the small, family run companies that suffer and go under first: the decent people who are struggling to feed and clothe their own children. Those people who, when someone owes them a paltry few thousand dollars/euros/pounds it is a REALLY BIG DEAL.  So, are you advocating saying &quot;Well, f**k everyone else except me and my own family&quot;? Dog eat Dog? 

OK, perhaps I get your point about having a what-the-hell-attitude to defaulting on debt to some large faceless corporation, but down the line somewhere in that corporation is a Mr/Mrs Joe Bloggs (plus family)who loses his job because profits are down.  

From our own situation &quot;downsizing&quot; has involved moving from the UK to France: setting-up and trying to run a business in a foreign language/culture, living in a house which we cannot afford to do up and which by UK (let alone US) standards would definitely be termed uninhabitable - cracked windows, exposed electric wiring, no heating... But we no longer have a mortgage and very very little credit (this only necessary because of people/larger companies witholding payments to us). I can pretty much say we are happier now.  We have space and freedom. Our children are bilingual, they go to small intimate schools, are learning to appreciate good food! France doesn&#039;t seem quite as bitten by the superficial materialistic bug as in the UK. It doesn&#039;t bother me that I drive around in a battered car that has seen better days, that I hardly ever buy new clothes, that I can&#039;t afford to have my hair cut more than once or twice a year. But life is still a huge struggle - there are still utilities to pay and food to buy - and a huge part of our monthly outgoings is to insurance companies - the biggest parasites/crooks of all.  My husband worries hugely about finances but I know neither him or me could contemplate defaulting on payments.  Then again that&#039;s probably why we&#039;re still where we are in the grand scheme of things: we&#039;re just not ruthless enough... the meek certainly won&#039;t inherit the earth.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my own simplistic way (and I certainly don&#8217;t profess to be a great political or intellectual mind)it seems that it is always the small, family run companies that suffer and go under first: the decent people who are struggling to feed and clothe their own children. Those people who, when someone owes them a paltry few thousand dollars/euros/pounds it is a REALLY BIG DEAL.  So, are you advocating saying &#8220;Well, f**k everyone else except me and my own family&#8221;? Dog eat Dog? </p>
<p>OK, perhaps I get your point about having a what-the-hell-attitude to defaulting on debt to some large faceless corporation, but down the line somewhere in that corporation is a Mr/Mrs Joe Bloggs (plus family)who loses his job because profits are down.  </p>
<p>From our own situation &#8220;downsizing&#8221; has involved moving from the UK to France: setting-up and trying to run a business in a foreign language/culture, living in a house which we cannot afford to do up and which by UK (let alone US) standards would definitely be termed uninhabitable &#8211; cracked windows, exposed electric wiring, no heating&#8230; But we no longer have a mortgage and very very little credit (this only necessary because of people/larger companies witholding payments to us). I can pretty much say we are happier now.  We have space and freedom. Our children are bilingual, they go to small intimate schools, are learning to appreciate good food! France doesn&#8217;t seem quite as bitten by the superficial materialistic bug as in the UK. It doesn&#8217;t bother me that I drive around in a battered car that has seen better days, that I hardly ever buy new clothes, that I can&#8217;t afford to have my hair cut more than once or twice a year. But life is still a huge struggle &#8211; there are still utilities to pay and food to buy &#8211; and a huge part of our monthly outgoings is to insurance companies &#8211; the biggest parasites/crooks of all.  My husband worries hugely about finances but I know neither him or me could contemplate defaulting on payments.  Then again that&#8217;s probably why we&#8217;re still where we are in the grand scheme of things: we&#8217;re just not ruthless enough&#8230; the meek certainly won&#8217;t inherit the earth.</p>
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		<title>By: Amy Porter</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amy Porter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 12:53:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I hate to mention this, but regression has been going on for over 10 years now. I used to work for US companies such as Johnson Wax (taken over by ça-va-seul France:1992,250 let go)Fiat Auto Belgio: moved to Italy:1994,175 people let go, Buena Vista Home Entertainment, closed 6 companies world wide 4500 people let go 1998, Planet Hollywood, 1998, 12 stores closed worldwide, including one of London&amp;Brussels top stores, Emmis Broadcasting, sells over 40 broadcast studio&#039;s 2008, and I miss a lot of them...this had been going for years, but no one ever said anything. In Belgium, during the last years of the &#039;90, more then 12000 companies went broke (Renault,Sabena &amp; DHL took 60.000 joblosses for their count in 2 years!!!), where sold or taken over by other companies...This is not new, it&#039;s just a fast forward of what&#039;s been going on for years. Sad to mention it, but strikes don&#039;t work either. If you go on strike, your don&#039;t work, so your not productive, and no one is paid to do nothing. So no work, no money, so jobloss.
I truely hope that things will get better. I can&#039;t say personally that I suffer the crisis, because I don&#039;t, but my crisis has been eversince my 18 years of age, by closings, taken overs, etc...my time of moarning is over...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hate to mention this, but regression has been going on for over 10 years now. I used to work for US companies such as Johnson Wax (taken over by ça-va-seul France:1992,250 let go)Fiat Auto Belgio: moved to Italy:1994,175 people let go, Buena Vista Home Entertainment, closed 6 companies world wide 4500 people let go 1998, Planet Hollywood, 1998, 12 stores closed worldwide, including one of London&amp;Brussels top stores, Emmis Broadcasting, sells over 40 broadcast studio&#8217;s 2008, and I miss a lot of them&#8230;this had been going for years, but no one ever said anything. In Belgium, during the last years of the &#8216;90, more then 12000 companies went broke (Renault,Sabena &amp; DHL took 60.000 joblosses for their count in 2 years!!!), where sold or taken over by other companies&#8230;This is not new, it&#8217;s just a fast forward of what&#8217;s been going on for years. Sad to mention it, but strikes don&#8217;t work either. If you go on strike, your don&#8217;t work, so your not productive, and no one is paid to do nothing. So no work, no money, so jobloss.<br />
I truely hope that things will get better. I can&#8217;t say personally that I suffer the crisis, because I don&#8217;t, but my crisis has been eversince my 18 years of age, by closings, taken overs, etc&#8230;my time of moarning is over&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Joe Seckelman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Joe Seckelman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 00:37:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Stephen,
 I think you are too harsh, a gillion years ago when we were lads a young president named Kennedy came along and decided he couldn&#039;t let Soviet missiles be parked at our doorstep and we almost ended up with a nuclear war. We are one year into a presidency and lets see where it ends up. I think it is far too early to tell if he is a visionary or a dud. 

We have a fiscal perfect storm heading our way with 1/4 of the population ready to retire, health care costs that year after year outstrip the inflation rate and a national debt that would choke a heard of elephants. Not to mention the unfunded medicare and social security obligations. 

Joe</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Stephen,<br />
 I think you are too harsh, a gillion years ago when we were lads a young president named Kennedy came along and decided he couldn&#8217;t let Soviet missiles be parked at our doorstep and we almost ended up with a nuclear war. We are one year into a presidency and lets see where it ends up. I think it is far too early to tell if he is a visionary or a dud. </p>
<p>We have a fiscal perfect storm heading our way with 1/4 of the population ready to retire, health care costs that year after year outstrip the inflation rate and a national debt that would choke a heard of elephants. Not to mention the unfunded medicare and social security obligations. </p>
<p>Joe</p>
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		<title>By: Kim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 15:11:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just wanted to add that we appreciate your responses to our replies here, Stephen; when you jump in, your reactions really add to the dialogue.  Sounds to me, reading through this, that you&#039;ve touched on an important theme; maybe you could find ways to explore it further? 

Though you may feel a certain &quot;responsibility&quot; to cover a wide range of topics, it seems that what people appreciate is just getting a genuine sense of who you are, and of how your voice resonates with the concerns of our time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just wanted to add that we appreciate your responses to our replies here, Stephen; when you jump in, your reactions really add to the dialogue.  Sounds to me, reading through this, that you&#8217;ve touched on an important theme; maybe you could find ways to explore it further? </p>
<p>Though you may feel a certain &#8220;responsibility&#8221; to cover a wide range of topics, it seems that what people appreciate is just getting a genuine sense of who you are, and of how your voice resonates with the concerns of our time.</p>
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		<title>By: Stephen Gyllenhaal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stephen Gyllenhaal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 05:28:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow. What a dialogue has unfolded here. From all of you. I feel honored to be a part of it, frankly. So many facets here -- like a cut jewel. I&#039;ll try to keep on my toes, to learn from you and to speak my mind as clearly as I can. 

I want to respond to everyone but it&#039;s a lot of work trying to keep all of these pieces coming on the website -- a mix of politics, poetry, film, Hollywood, un-Hollywood, et cetera. Trying to just be human in the strange world that we all live in -- and to sense increasingly how the voices that have been speaking here are from all over the world -- it makes me aware of how close together we all are on this planet, really. 

I hope I&#039;m making some sense. I&#039;ve been shooting all day in the rain out here in LA. It was colder than it should have been for Southern California and I&#039;m pretty much exhausted -- but I wanted to express my gratitude.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow. What a dialogue has unfolded here. From all of you. I feel honored to be a part of it, frankly. So many facets here &#8212; like a cut jewel. I&#8217;ll try to keep on my toes, to learn from you and to speak my mind as clearly as I can. </p>
<p>I want to respond to everyone but it&#8217;s a lot of work trying to keep all of these pieces coming on the website &#8212; a mix of politics, poetry, film, Hollywood, un-Hollywood, et cetera. Trying to just be human in the strange world that we all live in &#8212; and to sense increasingly how the voices that have been speaking here are from all over the world &#8212; it makes me aware of how close together we all are on this planet, really. </p>
<p>I hope I&#8217;m making some sense. I&#8217;ve been shooting all day in the rain out here in LA. It was colder than it should have been for Southern California and I&#8217;m pretty much exhausted &#8212; but I wanted to express my gratitude.</p>
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		<title>By: Sheryl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sheryl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Feb 2010 03:47:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve never written on your website before but I have often dropped by to read on the recommendation of my friend, Incognita.  I&#039;m glad to see you voice the frustrations and struggles of all of us during these desperate financial times.  
For me the greatest frustration was watching our great economic minds miss the point about the banks faltering under their own mismanagement.  This happened before - remember &quot;Black Tuesday&quot; in 1929?  The &quot;Great Depression&quot; was a cycle, and what came out of it was creativity, new businesses, and new jobs.  Economically this was supposed to happen; the sad part is that the powers on Capital Hill didn&#039;t let it run its course for our nation to then experience its natural process of economic re-growth after the dust from the crash settled.  
As Topsey stated &quot;Someone once said that capitalism would eventually collapse under the weight of its own inertia, but what frightens me is the sharp Right turn we’ve taken. We really do have to try to put the brakes on this mess.&quot;  How right you are Topsey, and what a frightening sharp right turn it is going to be, we are just now beginning to feel the spin of that maneuver; too bad the brakes have been removed.
- Sheryl</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve never written on your website before but I have often dropped by to read on the recommendation of my friend, Incognita.  I&#8217;m glad to see you voice the frustrations and struggles of all of us during these desperate financial times.<br />
For me the greatest frustration was watching our great economic minds miss the point about the banks faltering under their own mismanagement.  This happened before &#8211; remember &#8220;Black Tuesday&#8221; in 1929?  The &#8220;Great Depression&#8221; was a cycle, and what came out of it was creativity, new businesses, and new jobs.  Economically this was supposed to happen; the sad part is that the powers on Capital Hill didn&#8217;t let it run its course for our nation to then experience its natural process of economic re-growth after the dust from the crash settled.<br />
As Topsey stated &#8220;Someone once said that capitalism would eventually collapse under the weight of its own inertia, but what frightens me is the sharp Right turn we’ve taken. We really do have to try to put the brakes on this mess.&#8221;  How right you are Topsey, and what a frightening sharp right turn it is going to be, we are just now beginning to feel the spin of that maneuver; too bad the brakes have been removed.<br />
- Sheryl</p>
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		<title>By: Homer Hickam</title>
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		<dc:creator>Homer Hickam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 15:41:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Linda and I miss you, Stephen.  We really do.  Come see us in Huntsville or when we&#039;re in St. John, a great place to relax and reflect.  My email can be found on www.homerhickam.com under CONTACT US.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Linda and I miss you, Stephen.  We really do.  Come see us in Huntsville or when we&#8217;re in St. John, a great place to relax and reflect.  My email can be found on <a href="http://www.homerhickam.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.homerhickam.com</a> under CONTACT US.</p>
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		<title>By: Becky</title>
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		<dc:creator>Becky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 15:38:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for that reply.  You have many great points and I agree with much of what you said.  Maybe the only real difference in our political ideologies is the degree to which we have hope...naive or no, I&#039;m not ready to accept that these opportunities are all lost already...  But change does seems to be much harder to bring about than any of us (Obama included) ever anticipated.  

I also agree with what Topsey said below about the Tea Party movement.  As misguided and devoid of ideas as they are, the Tea Partiers do know how to organize and stick to a message, which is something that those of us on the other side of the aisle have repeatedly (and inexcusably!) failed at.  Right now, unfortunately, our greatest unifier is our general frustration.  But another thing I&#039;m hopeful about is that that will change, and when it does, when we start to rally around ideas instead of emotions, we&#039;ll start to make some progress in this country...  Fingers crossed!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for that reply.  You have many great points and I agree with much of what you said.  Maybe the only real difference in our political ideologies is the degree to which we have hope&#8230;naive or no, I&#8217;m not ready to accept that these opportunities are all lost already&#8230;  But change does seems to be much harder to bring about than any of us (Obama included) ever anticipated.  </p>
<p>I also agree with what Topsey said below about the Tea Party movement.  As misguided and devoid of ideas as they are, the Tea Partiers do know how to organize and stick to a message, which is something that those of us on the other side of the aisle have repeatedly (and inexcusably!) failed at.  Right now, unfortunately, our greatest unifier is our general frustration.  But another thing I&#8217;m hopeful about is that that will change, and when it does, when we start to rally around ideas instead of emotions, we&#8217;ll start to make some progress in this country&#8230;  Fingers crossed!</p>
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		<title>By: Amy Porter</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amy Porter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 14:57:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>here it is
info@abeventservices.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>here it is<br />
<a href="mailto:info@abeventservices.com">info@abeventservices.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: Amy Porter</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amy Porter</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 14:52:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m very much confused when I read that all this is the fault of :Obama, the banks, the CEO and their big salaries...Well I come from a small family where we had to work very hard in order to pay all our bills in general (wage: 1200 $ against 1000$ of expenses (gas, water, electricity, cartaxes, wage taxes, incometaxes, insurance etc) Belgium is rated as the number 10 in the world to pay the most taxes on everything. I made it in this world as been a successfull CEO. How? I worked alone, did all and everything alone. I fly economy, I stay at the Motel 6 or Studio 6 when I travel or go for contracts abroad. I&#039;m not afraid to say that I live very simple. I drive a 1200cc motorcycle: but YES I have 3 houses, 1 flourishing company, no overdue bills anymore and still standing. It is not necessary for the rich and famous to spend 25000 $ to a trip; while you can do it with only half and still have fun!! A lot of people buy on credit these days, well, I don&#039;t even have a Citibank or cc card. I used to have one, well I ended up with a 5000 $ dept. NEVER AGAIN. I learned from my mistakes. Most of the people don&#039;t. It&#039;s sad and hard to say it, but most of the people who find themselves into real trouble, are 90% themselves responsible for their own downside.Hope you didn&#039;t take any offence by this, but I see what Hollywood is doing, it&#039;s not because your famous that you can&#039;t get a coffee at McDonalds instead of Starbucks, it&#039;s less expensive and even better :))you can buy clothing at Sears instead of 5000 $ top that you only will wear once :(. My education tought me that nothing lasts for ever; so be carefull with it, it could be your last. I lived a great life and still can do what I want. If I can&#039;t pay it cash (no credit) I don&#039;t get it. Simple as that. Hope this can help. There is nothing bad to say that you have problems and that you&#039;ll have to work again just like Jack joe next door (9 to 5) Miljons of people do it everyday and they never end up on the internet :(( Take your own life in hands. Don&#039;t lend money, if you don&#039;t have any to give back. Thats making a whole to fill another one. If anyone has trouble, they can always ask how I did/do it. I&#039;ll be more then glad to help them to good ideas to make it further, before it&#039;s too late!. Hey Stepen, you can pass your friend my mail address. I might give her some tips to make it again in no time! Greetings to all and hope that things will go better
Amy</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m very much confused when I read that all this is the fault of :Obama, the banks, the CEO and their big salaries&#8230;Well I come from a small family where we had to work very hard in order to pay all our bills in general (wage: 1200 $ against 1000$ of expenses (gas, water, electricity, cartaxes, wage taxes, incometaxes, insurance etc) Belgium is rated as the number 10 in the world to pay the most taxes on everything. I made it in this world as been a successfull CEO. How? I worked alone, did all and everything alone. I fly economy, I stay at the Motel 6 or Studio 6 when I travel or go for contracts abroad. I&#8217;m not afraid to say that I live very simple. I drive a 1200cc motorcycle: but YES I have 3 houses, 1 flourishing company, no overdue bills anymore and still standing. It is not necessary for the rich and famous to spend 25000 $ to a trip; while you can do it with only half and still have fun!! A lot of people buy on credit these days, well, I don&#8217;t even have a Citibank or cc card. I used to have one, well I ended up with a 5000 $ dept. NEVER AGAIN. I learned from my mistakes. Most of the people don&#8217;t. It&#8217;s sad and hard to say it, but most of the people who find themselves into real trouble, are 90% themselves responsible for their own downside.Hope you didn&#8217;t take any offence by this, but I see what Hollywood is doing, it&#8217;s not because your famous that you can&#8217;t get a coffee at McDonalds instead of Starbucks, it&#8217;s less expensive and even better <img src='http://stephengyllenhaal.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> )you can buy clothing at Sears instead of 5000 $ top that you only will wear once <img src='http://stephengyllenhaal.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> . My education tought me that nothing lasts for ever; so be carefull with it, it could be your last. I lived a great life and still can do what I want. If I can&#8217;t pay it cash (no credit) I don&#8217;t get it. Simple as that. Hope this can help. There is nothing bad to say that you have problems and that you&#8217;ll have to work again just like Jack joe next door (9 to 5) Miljons of people do it everyday and they never end up on the internet <img src='http://stephengyllenhaal.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> ( Take your own life in hands. Don&#8217;t lend money, if you don&#8217;t have any to give back. Thats making a whole to fill another one. If anyone has trouble, they can always ask how I did/do it. I&#8217;ll be more then glad to help them to good ideas to make it further, before it&#8217;s too late!. Hey Stepen, you can pass your friend my mail address. I might give her some tips to make it again in no time! Greetings to all and hope that things will go better<br />
Amy</p>
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